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Navigating a few more social and professional conu

Navigating a few more social and professional conundrums when it comes to asking others about vaccines, going back to work in person and to handshake or not to handshake? @41actionnews

The big takeaway here is that unless it’s your event, don’t expect others to conform to your personal rules. Vice versa, if you’re going to someone else’s event, be aware of what is expected. Remember it is very much personal for each person. ☺️

And yes you can bet I can’t wait for handshakes to get back to normal!🤝 But I know that’s not the case for all, so very much best to ask first before you go in for that handshake or hug for the first time.
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Chicago Tribune reached out this week and asked if

Chicago Tribune reached out this week and asked if it’s polite to post again? My answers within✅👩🏻‍💻 #cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypostinstitute

Summer Lovin’ 💙

Summer Lovin’ 💙

This is the kind of Spring weather that’s perfec

This is the kind of Spring weather that’s perfect for everything…brisk run, warm gardening, sunny soccer games, fire pits at night - and no bugs yet! It’s also the season for teachers appreciation and Mother’s Day weekend, and I’m so grateful for clever friends (and mamas) who make me look good through their talents!

Mother’s Day gift to myself from the lovely and gifted ladies of @beautiful.planters for creating these stunning blue and white planters I’m enjoying like crazy in my backyard!🌺

And Teachers gifts are easy and tough at the same time, because you want to give something useful, but also unique. So thank you @jennysteffenshobick for your Westwood store always having just the right thing, and packaging to go with it. These cute pots with herbs, and threw in a TJ gift card in the back. Win/win. hopefully they made it into school in one piece 😬😁 Happy Mother’s Day weekend!🥂

It’s been a busy etiquette filled few weeks, wit

It’s been a busy etiquette filled few weeks, with lots of classes and requests both social and corporate!

And since images of my business classes aren’t quite as cute;), I leave you with these darling images from a recent mother/daughter Afternoon Tea course celebrating their First Communion.🌺

Etiquette Tip - Always pass the tea sandwiches (or anything else...) to the right when sharing.➡️ This stems from royal and presidential dinner protocol where the guest of honor is seated to the right of the host. #cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypost

Easter coincided with Henry’s 9th birthday this

Easter coincided with Henry’s 9th birthday this year, and when you have a money/candy Easter egg hunt on your birthday at the lake you’re winning 💙🎂 Happy Easter 🐣

Caught a crab, a puffer fish and a small shark 🎣 If you’re 3 boys, it’s basically the jackpot 😂💙 Until next time Florida.

Finger or Fork?🤔 If cheese is your love languag

Finger or Fork?🤔 If cheese is your love language, consider a few tips for indulging in your favorites this Valentine’s weekend ahead 💕

• Finger or fork...the simplest tip for knowing how to eat which cheese, is that hard cheeses may be eaten with your fingers, while soft cheese require knife and fork
• In all cases, set out small plates and utensils so that guests (or you and yours) may indulge by placing the cheeses and accoutrements on the plate first for full assembly and enjoyment
• You may also use bread or crackers, using your knife to spread the cheese and accompaniments on them
• If the cheese is served warm, such as fondue, utensils are required
• Set out a different knife for each cheese so that the cheeses don’t mix on the serving board or platter
• If Brie is served, cut pieces in pie shaped wedges so that each person may enjoy the rind and creamy center

These are some basic tips for cheese as an appetizer in the US, but in France cheese is it’s own dreamy course after the entree with many more additions. Doesn’t that sound magical!🍷❤️

Huge thanks to @charcut_audrey for creating this gorgeous charcuterie board that would make any cheese lover’s heart go pitter patter!🤗

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Me telling a class the other day about where a nap

Me telling a class the other day about where a napkin does not go...in the seat☺️🍽

Just a simple reminder to help polish up your dining skills - whether you are just excusing yourself from the table for a moment, or are finished with the meal, the napkin is best placed on the table just to the left of the plate. It can on occasion be placed on the top of the back of the chair, but the table is your best option. And never on your plate 🤭🤗 #cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypostinstitute

No matter what you fill them with this weekend🍷

No matter what you fill them with this weekend🍷🥂🍾...they are all held the same way! ➡️ By the stem🤗 Happy Weekend!
#cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypostinstitute #manners

I take no credit for this gem and in fact a friend

I take no credit for this gem and in fact a friend sent it to me when she found it, but boy do I love it.😂❤️ The art of the polite...we’re out of things to say now.;)
I’m also a big fan of, “Oh good grief sorry, I’ve already taken up too much of your time.” Any others? Excusing yourself politely is a definite art:)
#reallife #etiquette #cfetiquette #emilypost

Mae is Friday night 🥱

Mae is Friday night 🥱

New year and back to work✍️🤛 So how do you

New year and back to work✍️🤛 So how do you feel about speakerphone usage? I answered this conundrum for the Chicago Tribune’s edition of “Social Graces” this week 👩🏻‍💻 Happy New Year and cheers to a year ahead of consideration for others around us!🤗 #etiquette #cfetiquette #emilypostinstitute

Still wouldn’t trade the year. Happy 2021💙🍾

Union Station is glittering right now ✨

Union Station is glittering right now ✨

An excellent question from last night’s private

An excellent question from last night’s private etiquette dinner...is it okay to ask for a to go box for your leftovers during a business meal?🤷‍♀️

Although it may seem polite not to be wasteful (and it is!), a business lunch or dinner has its own perceptions though. Impressions may go awry as seeming to over order or taking for a later meal. Either can detract from the meal. Just feel free to leave your utensils at the 4 o’clock finished position when you are done and focus on the conversation.

Conversely, it’s completely fine to take your leftovers in a social setting😊

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Never knew how much you could appreciate a college

Never knew how much you could appreciate a college weekend with football and all! 💜

(Even in masks, not pictured:)

Another year of complete Halloween success 🎃

Another year of complete Halloween success 🎃

Jumping into the fall weekend, hope it’s a good

Jumping into the fall weekend, hope it’s a good one y’all 🍁

Welcome in October🍁🎃🔥🍷

Welcome in October🍁🎃🔥🍷

Discussing handshake alternatives with this sweet

Discussing handshake alternatives with this sweet and savvy private business client of mine yesterday🤝 I can’t wait to get back to handshakes! But in the meantime, I’m a big fan of the hands clasp as I’m showing in the photo. It conveys warmth and genuine interest in the other person, but without direct contact.

Recommend this one for man or woman! Full disclosure, I’m not a fan of the elbow or (heaven forbid) toe tap😊 Much like a fist bump, there isn’t really a place for those in a business setting especially. Your eyes, smile and warm greeting can convey a lot without the handshake 🤗

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Last night’s sunset view 💫 And a little neigh

Last night’s sunset view 💫 And a little neighborly advice in my contribution this week to the @chicagotribune . Do you agree?😊 How do you handle the sticky name situation?:) #cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypostinstitute

Straight from the source @emilypostinstitute you d

Straight from the source @emilypostinstitute you don’t have to put away those favorite white capris just yet!🤍 Happy Labor Day! #cfetiquette #etiquette #emilypost

National Dog Day?! Well then Mae is the best dog e

National Dog Day?! Well then Mae is the best dog ever for us. And she lives her best life on the lake 💦 And sometimes in our bed.

Did you know the Emily Post Institute has a newsle

Did you know the Emily Post Institute has a newsletter?! Etiquette tips and tricks straight to your inbox from the Post family. 📬

To my surprise, I was asked to be featured in their inaugural “Meet our Trainers” section of the newsletter. Feel very honored to have been trained by the Posts. 😊 I’m quite positive Emily would be proud of her Institute legacy.

You can sign up for the newsletter online at www.emilypost.com. @emilypostinstitute #emilypostinstitute #emilypost #cfetiquette #etiquette

Not a single thing went according to plan this Sum

Not a single thing went according to plan this Summer. Thank goodness 💙#etiquettetofollow #smokymountains #pisgahnationalforest #biltmore #greystonemansion #blueridgeparkway

Sunset cocktails right here 🍷 #greystoneinn #pi

Sunset cocktails right here 🍷 #greystoneinn #pisgahnationalforest

Good Evening ✨

First part of our great smoky/Appalachian trip⛰🏕 Woke up this morning to mimosas for our 18th anniversary delivered to our tent door. Truly incredible @benfad14 and @undercanvasofficial 🍾 Stunning Smoky Mountains 💙

Happy 5 to my littlest sweet guy!💙

Happy 5 to my littlest sweet guy!💙

Happy Weekend 💦

Happy Weekend 💦

Last day on the great American road trip and we we

Last day on the great American road trip and we were blown away by @undercanvasofficial at Mount Rushmore!🏕🌲🍷 The most gorgeous camping digs with a view of Mount Rushmore lit up at night. May spend the rest of the summer visiting their other national park locations:) 🏞! May start a wilderness etiquette blog;)

Simply the best @benfad14

Simply the best @benfad14